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While the majority of dildos or dongs look just like a penis in different sizes and colours, there is a wide variation in dildo and dong detailing. Some dildos and dongs are smooth and featureless while some dildos and dongs have detailed veins and balls like the

John Holmes Dong. Some dildos and dongs are designed to stimulate the G spot or prostate, or have extra undulations, bumps, for extra sensation e.g Stardreamer. Dildos and dongs are available for all size preferences from extra thick and stubby dildo and dongs, to long and slender dildo and dongs which are good for anal sex.

"Dildos and dongs are available for all size preferences from extra thick and stubby dongs, to long, slender dildos"

Your standard sex shop dildo or dong is usually made out of rubber and/or vinyl, but most quality dildos and dongs are made out of silicone e.g Emperor Flesh. They're nicely firm and a little more expensive, but they feel good and silicone is more durable and easier to clean than other materials.

Jelly dildos and dongs are made of soft, translucent rubbery jelly (the Jelly Dong) and can come in bright colours. They're economical and good for beginners. Cyberskin and Ultraskin such as Real Skin Dong give a soft, life-like feel. There are also dongs/dildos available in materials like glass ( Glass Dildos) and acrylic if the user prefers a harder experience.

Dildo Dong tips

1. Don't use oil or petroleum based lubricants like Vaseline if your dildo or dong is made of rubber or Cyberskin such as Emperor Flesh use a water based sexual lubricant ( Wet Original). Greasy lubricants will cause rubber dongs and dildos to disintegrate.
2. If you're sharing the dildo or dong with a partner, or using it in more than one orifice e.g. the vagina and the anal passage, use and change condoms between insertions to avoid passing STDs or germs that can cause infections. Condoms also make cleaning up easier.
3. If you want to use your dildo or dong for anal pleasure be sure it has a flared base big enough to keep it from disappearing permanently up your bottom. You don't want to get something stuck up there and have to go to the hospital & explain to the boss why you have taken time off work.
4. When purchasing a dildo or dong for yourself, don't let your eyes be bigger than your orifice. To get an idea of how much you can comfortably handle, test drive a cucumber or something a little smaller. Always put a condom on the vegetable for added protection.

Specialty dildos

Celebrity dongs

Cast from the rock hard members of porn stars these bad boys offer size and the promise of super realism, but you have to ask yourself, do you really want to see every bump and wrinkle on Jeff Stryker's penis up close? And despite their fantasies, how many people can actually take on a dildo or dong of porn star proportions? If you think you can check out the Jeff Stryker Dong.

Monster dongs

One notch up from the superhuman size of the celebrity models these dongs should come with a surgeons warning for internal injuries. Some are as long as your arm and as wide such as the Super Duper Dong. In fact, some are shaped like forearms with a fist. Again personal preference is the key but they are probably better used for display only.

Double dildos

These are dildos and dongs with a head at each end, typically used for girl-on-girl action. Hetero couples can also use them for vaginal to anal screwing. If the dong is long and flexible enough, (the Double Dong) a female can use it for solo double penetration.

Bells and whistles

Other gizmos include dildos or dongs with built-in or insertable vibrators, inflatable or squirting dildos, bendable & even light-up dongs.

Harnessing your equipment

Some dildos have a suction cup base to be attached to a surface for a solo ride, or to simulate a three way experience such as the John Holmes Dong. Those with flared bases can be worn in a harness. Leather, nylon or velvet harnesses work best as they hold things in place better and don't stretch out like elastic. There are dildo harnesses that men can wear that will accommodate their dick and balls and allow for double penetration of a woman such as the Hollow Extender. Other harness type devices allow a dildo to be mounted on the wearer's face, allowing for a close-up view and oral opportunities.

Top Ten Tips for Dildos

1. Be realistic about your dildo or dong. When purchasing a dildo for yourself, don't let your eyes be bigger than your orifice. To get an idea of how much you can comfortably handle, test drive a cucumber. Always put a condom on the vegetable for added protection.
2. Watch your bottom. If you want to use a dildo or dong for anal pleasure be sure it has a flared base big enough to keep it from disappearing up your bottom permanently.
3. Guard against germs. If you're sharing the dildo or dong with a partner, or using it in more than one orifice, either clean and disinfect the dildo or dong thoroughly between insertions with a Sex toy cleaner, or use condoms on it and change them between insertions to avoid passing STDs or germs that can cause infections.
4. Use a water based sexual lubricant like Wet Original. Don't use oil or petroleum based lubricants if your dildo or dong is made of rubber or Cyberskin. Greasy stuff will cause rubber dildos or dongs to disintegrate.
5. Keep your dildo or dong clean. Clean your dildo or dong after every use by washing with a disinfectant sex toy cleaner. Sticky dongs & dildos can breed germs and attract dust and dirt that can cause infections.
6. Strap your dildo or dong on for no hands fucking with a partner! Use a strap on dildo. There are strap ons that are suitable for both men & women.
7. Double Dong Fun: For fun with a friend, try a double dong this will allow you both the pleasure of dildo penetration either anally or vaginally. Women can also use flexible double dildos for double penetration.
8. Ride that dong! If you love hard sex get a dildo with a suction cup base that you can attach to the wall, shower tiles, floor or other smooth surface such as the Emperor Flesh.
9. Get a buzz. A vibrating dildo or dong like the  Mr. Realistic or a multifunction vibrating dildo or dong can provide extra stimulation along with penetration. These vibrators can also be used externally on the vulva, clitoris, or penis and testicles for masturbation.
10. Avoid damage to your dildo or dong. A tiny nick on the surface of a jelly rubber, silicone, or Cyberskin dildo or dong will turn into a big tear that will ruin the sex toy. Take care to keep your dildo or dong away from any sharp or pointy objects or abrasive surfaces and prolong its life by storing in a box or protective cloth or bag when not in use.
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